Whilst men often enjoy the supremacy of looking for some qualities such as patience, respect, and how to do house chores, which qualifies a lady to be a marriage Material before marriage in a typical African society before marriage, a lady has turned this rules opposite at this moment. Nigerian lady asked her boyfriend to quit his job before she marries him. Maybe this is extreme feminism or something else.lol
A Twitter user by name Chisara Agoha Narrated how she made her husband undergo a series of tests which made him qualified and approved by her father and brother before accepting him to marry her.
She made him quit his well-paid job and asked him to stay with her father and serve him. There was a time where her father even Slapped him but he didn’t react. He later stayed with her elder brother where he has to wash his car and also prepare breakfast.
After all these treatments, he was confirmed eligible to marry her. These are her full tweet and the reactions from her followers. We know she’s just being sarcastic, but men, would you do this?
Two months before our marriage, I told my husband to quit his job and go and stay with my father.— Chisara Agoha (@Chisara14) August 7, 2020
My husband had a good job that was paying him in six digits. But when it comes to marriage, one has to prioritise.
I told him he needed to go and stay with my father so that my father can watch him and also teach him certain things. He said “okay.”
He stayed with my father for a month before proceeding to stay with my eldest brother in Ibadan.— Chisara Agoha (@Chisara14) August 7, 2020
My father and my brother told me to go ahead; he is very homely.— Chisara Agoha (@Chisara14) August 7, 2020
According to them, he woke up early to wash my brother’s car and set breakfast for everyone. I even heard my father intentionally slapped him one day just to know if he will retaliate but he didn’t.
That shows my husband is well trained and ready to endure because endurance is necessary in every marriage.— Chisara Agoha (@Chisara14) August 7, 2020
After two months, I asked him to marry me because he passed all the tests.
You might think asking your husband to go stay with your family for some time is old fashioned, but trust me, it works.— Chisara Agoha (@Chisara14) August 7, 2020
If women always send their husbands to stay with their families, they will not have husbands who talk when they are talking.
Or a husband who slaps the father in-law back because the father in-law gave him a small slap.— Chisara Agoha (@Chisara14) August 7, 2020
Women, you are the heads, act like one.
If you are going to honour a man with marriage, let him work hard for it and show you he is ready for the journey.
We have to woman up.